Ok, I admit that I have pretty high expectations. Occasionally, they get in the way although usually they help me focus on how I can improve on something right in front of me. I've spent time with people at all stages of the spectrum. I've seen people leave a restaurant in the middle of appetizers, and I've heard someone say he gets by holding "extremely low standards" of others.
Recently, I presented a short seminar for a small group of professionals. On one of the breaks, a woman said that she was going to have to leave as she wasn't getting the content she had planned on getting yet. I asked her what she was looking for and she commented, "I'd like to know how to delegate more effectively and leave work at work when I go home."
After the seminar was over, I went back to the hotel. The next morning, before heading out to the airport, I stopped for coffee (and to get lunch for the flight) and logged in to my e-mail. There, I read an e-mail from another Director who had attended the program.
What an amazing surprise, as he had e-mailed me the night before at past 9pm EST! "Jason, I got so much more out of the seminar than I thought I would. First, I'm inspired to get to the office and get control of my 'stuff.' Second, your tips on using Outlook as a delegating and tracking tool are going to save me time every day!"
About four months ago, another client sent me a great book. I've read it twice, and am finding quote after quote to use in my own speaking and writing. Here is a line that I have shared a few times now: Don't expect miracles or overnight transformations. Wow, what a concept! I remember teaching high school was a special time for me because I did get the consistent and continued connection with the students. In fact, when people ask me to this day, "Do you ever miss teaching?"
I always reply with something like, "I miss the everyday connection with the students as they were so incredible to work with and see grow over time." If you've been waiting, go sign up for a class, subscribe to a magazine or buy that book you have been thinking of reading. You may only get one or two ideas from that new content - but, who knows?! It could be the perfect information you need right now to make a move, start a program, and complete something you've started.
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